I hadn't been to one in years and hadn't been to this particular one at all, it was decided we'd go. Thinking back on previous shows I'd been to years before, I remembered the pitfalls of them. At the time I never understood why I'd get so anxious at them, why I'd be so overwhelmed with everything but these days I look at the world with my new sight knowing that as a highly sensitive person I'm prone to over-stimulation.
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| Ride Area |
As a highly sensitive person and introvert it's important to work out a flexible plan and have escape routes worked out if things get too much for you. We had done just that. There was so much to see and do. We knew it was going to be a busy place with a lot of people vying for our attention to part with our money or try our hand at side show like the laughing clowns or shooting gallery. There would be crowds of people there, people losing their patience, children running wild and being bumped into. With so much going on, rides, animals, people, things happening on stage, it would be a challenge to our ears. Plenty of lovely smells (food) and not so lovely smells (animals). There would be so much to take in visually as well.
My sister had the smart idea of getting there early and getting into the showgrounds as soon as they opened the gates, there were others with similar ideas but the amount of people was very bearable first thing. We'd agreed that if it was getting too much for one of us, we'd leave and we'd make sure we would take breaks often for food or a drink and hide away somewhere quiet to recharge our internal batteries.
We both like similar things as well which helped us, we'd happily sit having a coffee and watching the horses in the arena while relaxing in the sunshine. We could see the main show with the rides off to one side, we could hear the noises but where we sat it wasn't so intrusive. But I wanted to do some things I enjoyed as a young girl which meant we needed to venture into the noisier areas - I wanted to play some of the side shows so I could win something and my sister wanted to go on a couple of the rides. We both got to do what we wanted and survived.
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| Heavy Horses in show ring |
I think the key to surviving such a day is making sure that you don't keep pushing yourself. Do something, or do a couple of things and then go have a drink and sit down somewhere quiet and soak in the atmosphere - it really helps you to be able to focus again. Another thing we found was helpful was getting off the beaten track. Sure it's good to be in the thick of it for brief periods but if you have a wander around the outskirts, you may find some things that you hadn't anticipated. Quite often these places can be a good place to recharge too.
Our plan to get in early worked in our favour and because of that we were able to stay for about 6-7 hours. The last two hours of our time there was harder though, it was getting noisier, the crowds were really building up and it was getting very uncomfortable. We knew we'd pushed it to our limit that day and happily headed home proud of the fact that we'd managed to survive relatively unscathed and still in good spirits. (In the past I've tended to push myself too far and come home burnt out.)
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| Show Bag goodies |
